But then reminding me of break ups.. Lol. Saturday night is a real lose-lose situation.
Anyways. I'm having the night home tonight as my best friend has dogged me.. She doesn't seem to know how to go out without her sister.. I loveee her sister, we've had mad awesome times out all of us..Both of them are awesome. But my friend-I'll call her Selfish Snob-(that's a little mean, but meh) has gone from being independent to dependent.. We used to go out all the time, just us. Now she can't do anything without her sister (we'll call her Princess Snob). And it seems they only do things that will benefit themselves.
And what makes it worse is she's dogged me for a friend who I also know too, and whom i've invited to my parties and stuff but she's never invited me out. So it really is pissing me off. And Facebook showed me that Princess Snob initiated changing plans with this other friend (let's call her Tuna in Brine) even after making plans with me..
They have a habit of doing that. And being really unfashionably late. They think it's fashionable. It's not bitches..!
The problem now what I'm faced with is that I'm realising that these are traits I do not wish to have in my friends.. But I've just bought tickets to 2 summer musical festivals that we planned to attend together.. So what the hell do I do??
And the other thing is, they buy me really expensive looking designer things..like clutches, jewellery. I cannot compete with that. I cannot afford that stuff..!
And another thing, they drink too much.. I mean, drinking on occasions is great..but these girls drink to excess and they are tiny..so after just one drink they are pretty much blotto, and they keep drinking, until they are legless and literally can't walk. I hate being their babysitter. So many nights got ruined due to their drunkness..
These are girls that I have known since high school.. so like.. 12 years or so..! This is pretty shit.
I never have had a true best best friend.. I'd really like to have one sometime in this life..! Maybe I'm being the bitch.. but I can never seem to find someone like me.
hello,
ReplyDeleteLOVE your blog .. it's pretty amazingly girlish .. i'm sure i'll be visiting here a lot ..
about friends .. hell yeah .. the worst thing that can ever happen to you is having fake friends ... not talkin about ur friends of course but i mean fake best friends .. it's more like torturing than having fun .. and close relationship with someone who really shares life with you .. laughter, tears and all.
but again having someone around is better than nothing .. at least you spend time with someone ..
cheer up girl .. :) we can't have it all in this life ..
Hello Ma'am.
ReplyDeleteThe horrible part about friends is that sometimes they become someone you can't really be that good of friends with. It's part of growing up (and apart). Why not tell them how you're feeling, sometimes people really are dense/blind and can't see what they're doing to others.
By the way, thank you for the comment on my blog. It made me smile.
- Kendall
I've gone through the same thing that you're going through before. Remember you have to do what makes you happy and if being friends with them is making you unhappy then change it. I know it's hard. Keep your head up though. By the way, I gave you an award today. :)
ReplyDeletereally what do I do with it..? hahaha..!
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