I will continue on with Thursday nights shenanigans.. So fun. Our cafe downstairs is funky and have the cutest waiters.. We have befriended them! So we get free stuff all the time. Anyways, after a crazy-ass day, we went downstairs to chill out before heading out. Met up with one of the cuter waiters and his best mate. Free wine and pizza and chocolate muffins! Then we headed to the corner to our local pub. 5 drinks later, after getting to know each other inside and out, we needed to head back up to work so I could grab my stuff as I was staying at my co-workers place (We'll call her Dr Crazy!) and decided to get on the happy gas..bahaha sooo fun! Then - taxi to Dr Crazy's - followed by more Vodka fuelled conversation. Then off to the Cross - hooking up with the cute waiter (DD) on the way - hit up some Hotel. Then onto a club after the massive jug of Vodka and Red Bull (!!) Danced the night away..I felt some stretched muscles in the morning! Left at 7am.. Then sleep..! Heard from DD and his mate added me to Facebook. nice boys. 20.. Too young ! DD texted me but never replied back. Meh!
All the while, I was supposed to go out o Friday night with Lainie, but felt like death and bailed. Texted her. No reply. As we were supposed to hang out what would've been tonight, I felt like I wanted to dogg tonight because she hadn't replied. But more on that later.
Fireman Sam texted me.
!
Yeah, mayjah.
"Maybe I want things back to the way things were.."
WTF!
Me: Are you serious?
No reply. grr.
Me: Well???
FS: Yeah, come to Miranda.
After 10 minutes of useless bantering text, he stopped replying. This really pissed me off. Things were back to the way things were.
Me: You're so annoying
FS: (within 30 seconds of texting him) Why?
Me: Because you're still being a prat. You randomly text me (not true, I had drunkenly texted him on Thurs night hehe of course no reply) because you've had a few and you just expect me to come and see you, and then you dont even reply
FS: It's not like that don't degrade me. I miss you that's all.
GEEESUS! He's never said he misses me in his life.
I still questioned it. Then I get this text: Whatever.
My vein popped. I hate his "Whatever" comeback. I called.
An hour later, still talking. About everything. About going away, about the fight, about meeting up. He's coming over on Monday. To give me back my cardi. And because "I really want to see you on Monday." He has never ever ever said this stuff.
At first, I was stoked. I have to admit.. No one has come crawling back. Besides Sparky (past bf) but it was just him. And especially him, especially since he was the one who has some commitment problem..
Now though.. meh. Whatever.
I texted him today whilst enjoying amazing Thai.. no reply.
Why did I bother.
Just got a reply. "Good thai?"
Still. Whatever.
And then.. Lainie. She hung up on me about half an hour ago. She was talking about going out tonight, it's only a suburb away from me. But being honest, and I'm aware I may cop some massive flack from some readers, it's a party at a place of a certain ethnicity whom I dislike. I live in an area where being pure Australian is the minority. And we are harassed by this certain religion/culture/race. I didn't really feel comfortable. The area can be scary. Plus I didn't want to go..my mindframe is set on lazy at the moment. She was like.. "You have to come"
Already had been put off by yesterday's no response and thought that she may of been pissed off, I breached the subject. After all, I thought that it might of been kinda a given that I wasn't going after no replying to me. I brought it up. She got testy. She then said..
"Well, dont come if you're gonna fuck my night up.."
"Well.. if it's gonna be like that then it's all good, don't worry about it.."
"Whatever."
*Hung up on*
Like wtf!! I'm kinda glad. No real friend would make you do something you don't want to do, especially speak to you that way. She's going with a group of people as well, it's not as if she were going alone. I get where she was coming from..but that wasn't the way to say it.
And since she's hung up on me, I'm not the one looking like a fucking immature bitch.
Woo hoo! Lol.
Sounds like you had a very alcohol filled evening.
ReplyDeleteTHE BEST :D
PS - I hate "Whatever" comebacks. WITH A PASSION!
Maybe FS is slowly maturising.. just not enough yet to realise that "Whatever" isn't fun or interesting or the slightest bit clever. It impresses nobody.
ReplyDelete"No real friend would make you do something you don't want to do"
That is 100% true and I think people forget that far too often. There seems to be a mindset that "I don't want to do it, but if I don't do it then they won't be my friend any more"
It's true. A real friend only wants to see you happy. As my friend Doolie said to me yesterday.."Even if you make the wrong decision, I'll always be there to be your shoulder to cry on, even if I knew you were doing the wrong thing. i just want you to be happy, and do what you need to do."
ReplyDeleteI haven't heard from Lainie at all. I don't mind really. And FS.. not sure. I asked him to message me today about meeting up tomorrow. Nothing. We'll see.