Saturday, September 12, 2009

Shut down

So I met up with my last ex-boyfriend this morning for brunch..I can't remember what I named him or tagged him under last time but I'll just call him..Capricorn for the moment.

Anyways so Capricorn and I were having a lovely time. It just felt so comfortable and normal and we were reminiscing and I was slightly confused. What was this? Yeah we're friends. And it's nice to reminisce about the nice happy times. But totally getting weird vibes. Then he brought up that he's seeing this chick *sigh* but she's older..and has a kid..and starting talking about how he doesn't think it's working with her blah blah..
So I just blurted out.. "what about giving us another go hey?"

"Uh..no..well..not in the near future"

Lol.. Cut!

Like I get it. Thanks for the bluntness.

I explained to him that I just miss being comfortable with a member of the opposite sex..and he was like yes there there, you'll meet someone someday speech.. just not him right?
I also explained that I think our friendship is pointless..
Lol..
I just can't do relationships with exes. I wish I could!

So it all ended a bit weird. He dropped me home and parked (why?) and he was like "I got a few mins to spare let's just sit."
3o seconds later
I've split. Quick goodbye. He attempted to hug and give me a kiss on the cheek but was not real keen.

I'm not planning to see him for awhile..
Bahaha.
Hopefully his someday speech will come true.

3 comments:

  1. Well, at least he was honest. Have to appreciate honesty.

    And I'm not going to give you the speech again. In fact.. ever again. You know it by now.

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  2. He could have lied to but at least he was honest.

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  3. You know, in my experience with ex-es, I always look back... now mind you... some time did pass.. but I ALWAYS look back and laugh with these words coming out of my mouth:

    "I can't believe I ever dated him."

    This isn't to say they are not nice, datable men, just not a good fit for me.

    Hope you laugh about it one day. Life is a pisser. xxoo

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