January's word is "Spontaneity"

Spontaneity..something D* has never possessed in her whole life.

Everything has to be planned to the core; every little detail accounted for.

I let my hair down on Saturday night and had literally one of the best nights ever..!

We didn't end up getting in the club on Friday night when Lainie and I intially met up  with Fireman Sam and his mate (we'll call him Richie Rich) as they weren't wearing collars..stupid drongo club isn't even classy! So we made our own fun. We bought a couple of bottles of wine, and played silly drinking game till dawn. It was simple fun. Of course me, being me, freaked out a bit at first.. "Oh I can't play with youse..I got really sick last time.. I really can't.." 20 minutes later, was having a blast playing "I went shopping and.." (Great game to play when drunk, really tests your memory) 

The alcohol bought me and the Fireman a bit closer, soon stepping into our own world, playing cards, whispering and giggling. He divulged that when we met, he felt like a "bond." I thought that was sweet.

The 4 of us went to bed after 3am, Fireman with Me and Lainie with Richie Rich..

We didn't want to sleep. We just kept talking and cuddling, making out. It was like being back in those days when sex was something you just wouldn't do..I never stopped to appreciate making out, because sex would override something as simple as that. And all we did was roll around and laugh and be silly. It was cute.

We woke up after an hour.. Lainie's birds woke us up..so we just laid there drifting in and out of shallow sleep whilst laughing about throwing mounds of rocks at the birds. We got up and drove a few kilometres to Maccas for a greasy breakfast fix. We made fun of a tradie with a grey mullet.. lol. 

But once we started hanging out with Lainie and Richie Rich, he went quiet. Maybe he was just tired.. we all were. But we managed to gather enough energy to drive like an hour and a half to where the boys live by the sea. (Another spontaneous moment) At first it was a bit of a struggle for me.. I felt alone, even though Lainie was with me..RR was paying her attention, not leaving her out for a second.. but FS kinda had his back to me, and seemed to not be acknowledging me in the beginning..I'm guessing his group is cliquey..I get it.. I wasn't wanting him to cling to me..just a little attention was what I wanted//needed.. 

So anyways, D got talked into having some wine.. (Spontaneous moment #3) and let herself go. We all started laughing and doing dumbass things, like smoking the apartment up with a smoke machine, and playing Hacki Sack with a massive basketball that looks like a tennis ball. It was soo fun! Maybe had to be there..?

As the wine started kicking in, so did my care factor and so I walked up to FS and blankly asked with a cheeky smile on my face:

"What's a girl gotta do to get some attention around here" 

Well that started the ball rolling. We started hugging, grabbing. Kissing. We went for a walk on the beach.. It was great. I dawned on me that this boy is just so different around his friends than when he's by himself. It's crazy! But I have to give it to him; the guys started getting into some Death Metal at 12:30am.. (yuck!) and although he liked it and I know he wanted to join in on the sillyness, he stayed with me, and laid with me, covering my ears from the tremendous noise coming from the decks. I thought that was cute. 

He had to work the next morning.. and wasn't very happy.. maybe not a morning person. A quick kiss, and he was off. I missed his warmth in bed. But I felt okay. Usually I would feel sad because I'd be alone, but I felt content..settled. 

We left the beachside apartment late morning, and Lainie and I discussed the boy situation, and what we were going to do. The boys asked us back the next weekend for a beach party. I really want to go. Lainie wants to go wakeboarding with Boat Boy, but will be cactus afterwards..so I decided to make plans with FS today..I've set up a meeting next weekend, and a place to stay (his!) so this should make for very interesting blogging..!

I'm at home today.. worst cold ever.. bahh!! At least there's some waffles around here!